Free Webinar/Teleseminar

'What I liked most about the Intensive was what I learned about myself, and the controlling way I've been, and about the alternative available to me. I learned that it is essential to bring compassion to myself no matter what and that love doesn't come from me but from God. The process of practicing Inner Bonding, noticing and being kind with God's help and grace, is the Healthy Adult. The Intensive was extraordinary - worth every penny!' Colorado Intensive, 4.11
Sherry Golden

'What I liked most about the Intensive was what I learned about myself, and the controlling way I've been, and about the alternative available to me. I learned that it is essential to bring compassion to myself no matter what and that love doesn't come from me but from God. The process of practicing Inner Bonding, noticing and being kind with God's help and grace, is the Healthy Adult. The Intensive was extraordinary - worth every penny!' Colorado Intensive, 4.11
Sherry Golden

"After having read two of Margaret's books and worked half way through her "Healing your Aloneness Workbook", I got stuck. I was so desperate that I eventually decided to travel half way around the world out of Germany to attend a 5 days Intensive. But then I experienced the very best of all the previous 44 years of my life. I found the key to healing which I had been searching for such a long time! I would like to encourage all persons in Germany who have considered attending an Intensive to do so, though I consider English knowledge at conversational level necessary." L.A. Intensive, 2/05
Dirk Luebbers

(This is from the April, 2020 5-Day Intensive - the first one we have done on Zoom. It was very successful!)

Attending an Intensive with Dr. Margaret Paul is giving yourself the gift of learning how to embody the Inner Bonding process. If you want to master becoming a Loving Adult to your Inner Child, then there’s no better place to be than at Dr. Paul’s intensive. You will discover the holes in your current Inner Bonding process – whether that’s challenges around feeling your feelings, accessing guidance, or taking loving actions, and with loving support of Dr. Paul, you will be given feedback and tools to fill those very holes. Even better, you will have the benefit not only of learning from your own work with Dr. Paul, but also of learning from the work of every other participant in the program, which can be as deeply if not more impactful from your own work. You will see aspects of yourself in every participant, and as a result will gain tools from every coaching session, every role modeling exercise, or Anger process Dr. Paul does with others.

Having studied Inner Bonding for close to a decade now, I’m constantly amazed how every time I attend an intensive, I learn how much deeper I can go in this work to grow my Loving Adult and to live a life of peace, and joy, instead of fear, anxiety and sadness.

This last intensive showed me how often I have indulged a wounded part of me that likes to feel sad, worrying feelings as a means to “control” my helplessness over relationships and my career. During this intensive I had my first powerful experience of watching my wounded self try to make me miserable as I woke up by telling me lies about the future, and I was able to CATCH IT and SIT ON IT as Margaret likes to say. And the result is I was able to feel JOY for the rest of the day where normally that feeling could have lingered for days.

I was also able to stay inside the intention to learn with my husband during a three and a half hour conversation about things that he’d experienced that I needed to hear but normally would have avoided or reacted to or shut down. What a gift to both of us!

If you have relationship issues, or if you are struggling to stop sourcing your value from WHAT YOU DO, or WHO YOU LOVE, or WHO LOVES YOU and are ready to start sourcing your value from WHO YOU ARE – YOUR ESSENCE – and those UNIQUE QUALITIES OF GOD IN YOU – then get yourself to an Intensive ASAP! It will be the best investment of time and money you could EVER make for yourself. And this is speaking as someone with decades of therapy and inner work under my belt!

"This has been the most wonderful experience of my lifetime. Inner and Outer Bonding (wonderful group of people) is truly amazing and truly divine - a release from bondage. It is not only a unique experience in itself but also an ongoing inspiration." Santa Barbara Intensive, 12/05
Ann Forsyth

The word intensive is an authentic description of the experience.  The cost in dollars is a pittance to the cost of living my life in the state of the wounded self.  Peace, joy, fulfillment; is within all of us and with Inner Bonding and the guidance of Margaret I was able to rediscover what has always been there.  Her kindness, compassion, wisdom and love from her to each and everyone of us in the group.  A genuine life-changing intensive experience.  April 2019