Intensives
Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer Intensives for both individuals and couples.
In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself.
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Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
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Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
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Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
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Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
- Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.
The 5-Day Intensive maximum of 12-13 people provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core self, your wounded self, and your higher guidance. We work with Inner Bonding six hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.
In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships.
"Margaret’s Inner Bonding Intensive was life-changing, and let me explain. I’m not using that as a platitude. What I mean is that applying her divinely inspired process to one’s life actually changes everything. Through Inner Bonding we are given the tools to develop an incredibly powerful and loving relationship with ourselves. We open to our innate beauty and tenderness and our deserving-ness of love and care. We develop a strong, healthy self-advocate who goes after our dreams, believes in ourselves, and creates magic. AND we connect deeply to our guidance, that wise voice inside that has profound answers for us. WOW! The experiential nature of the program makes sure we both experience and anchor these transformations right then and there, giving us a newfound tool belt for weathering the complexities of life with grace and joy. As a professional in the coaching / transformation field, I have pretty high standards (lol). I was honored to have been facilitated in such deep healing work, and new adventures abound in my life!" ~ Barb Wade, Speaker, Author, Coach
"During the intensive, my true self, the pure and innocent child, became so clearly apparent and vivid and now he is a part of my daily life - no longer neglected. This experience has truly changed my being and life." ~Mike Devine, Farmer
Who Should Attend:
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Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
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Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
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Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
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People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
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Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
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Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
- Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.
The investment for Dr. Margaret's virtual Intensives is $2,195.00.
A $650 non-refundable deposit secures your space. Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.
For more Intensive testimonials, click here.
| Date | Event | Location | Hosted By |
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| 03/18/2026 08:00 AM | 5-Day Virtual Intensive | Dr. Margaret Paul | |
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Daily Inspiration
It takes both the brilliance of the sun and the blackness of sky to create a rainbow. And so it follows, that without conflict life would be colorless.
By Dr. Erika Chopich
Even though I had just completed a two year Master's degree in Counseling Psychology, I learned so much more about loving myself during the intensive. The experience has substantially changed my life and I now have a very practical tool to use in transforming my fears and worries into compassion and love. I highly recommend the experience - my wife and I are incredibly grateful!
Mark Lersch
"I had a very profound experience at this retreat. It opened up a whole new world inside me and allowed me to heal some very deep issues. I thank Margaret and the other participants for a very moving 5 days." Colorado Intensive, 10/08
Saeyoung Min
'All my life I always felt something was wrong with me and I felt very alone. I tried all kinds of therapies throughout my life (I'm 58 now), everything from encounter groups, primal screaming to Hakomi, A&D Treatment center, Terri Kellogg, Intensive ACOA treatment, Hoffman Quadrinity Process to Avatar to private therapists and counsellors, to 12 Step groups to religions, and A Course in Miracles. Although I felt relief from all of them and it kept me going, I was always left with me, the woman who never feels good enough, feels alone and lonely, very knowledgeable and educated but still unworthy and did I say alone and lonely? Yeah, that continued. I didn't know how to end this torture of being me. I blamed it on my abusive childhood and most of all on me for being a loser and screw up. Inner Bonding is the 1st therapeutic intervention that has taught me how to love myself. It is a 'simple process', but not easy. But now I know I have a model of recovery of self love that does work and will work if I work it.' Colorado Intensive, 10.11
Barbara Green
"The 5-Day Intensive was the most loving and fulfilling experience I have ever given myself. No one should ever hesitate to take advantage of such a precious and life enhancing adventure." Lucerne Valley, CA - May 2002
Carol Docouto
"This workshop has been an enlightening experience for me. Inner Bonding has taught me to be compassionate with myself and the people who are important to me. I am grateful for the learning and for sharing my experience with a very special group of individuals." Santa Fe Intensive, 10/06
Ted Tobias
'For me the Intensive has absolutely sealed that the Inner Bonding process always works as long as you do it and live it every moment - and you always have a choice! What I liked most about the Intensive was learning from the stories, experiences and sessions of the group. I also thought the format of working on the floor was very grounding and really helped me to access my emotions and Inner Child. I would absolutely recommend the Intensive. It has been one of the most profound experiences of my life and I know I will draw on my learning here for the rest of my life. Margaret, thank you for changing my life. I am looking forward to the next chapter now that I feel so connected and committed to my daily practice.' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011
Harriet Farmer




