Intensives
Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding Facilitators offer Intensives for both individuals and couples.
In an environment of safety and compassion, discover and heal the cycle of shame and self-abandonment that is the root cause of your anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship struggles. Dr. Margaret Paul and other facilitators quickly see exactly how you are treating yourself that is causing your suffering and gently guide you in learning to love yourself and others rather than continue to abandon yourself.
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Heal the fears and false beliefs that limit you, moving into the ability to manifest your dreams.
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Heal the abandonment, shame and self-abandonment issues that lie at the center of anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship problems.
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Heal taking/caretaking control issues, resolving anger, withdrawal, compliance and resistance.
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Heal fears of rejection, engulfment, aloneness, and failure.
- Heal addictions to drugs, food, nicotine, alcohol, relationships, work, sex, and other addictions.
The 5-Day Intensive maximum of 12-13 people provides a safe, intimate, caring environment for individuals and couples to work in exploring deeper issues. Through Inner Bonding, you learn to develop a loving adult who connects deeply with your core self, your wounded self, and your higher guidance. We work with Inner Bonding six hours daily, giving participants plenty of time for healing work.
In the Inner Bonding work, the woundedness that started in your family of origin is addressed and you are helped to understand and heal your fears and beliefs that create anxiety and depression, and stand in the way of loving yourself and others. You learn how to create a safe space within which to resolve conflicts, as well as the necessary tools to resolve conflict in ways that lead to increased closeness in all your relationships.
"Margaret’s Inner Bonding Intensive was life-changing, and let me explain. I’m not using that as a platitude. What I mean is that applying her divinely inspired process to one’s life actually changes everything. Through Inner Bonding we are given the tools to develop an incredibly powerful and loving relationship with ourselves. We open to our innate beauty and tenderness and our deserving-ness of love and care. We develop a strong, healthy self-advocate who goes after our dreams, believes in ourselves, and creates magic. AND we connect deeply to our guidance, that wise voice inside that has profound answers for us. WOW! The experiential nature of the program makes sure we both experience and anchor these transformations right then and there, giving us a newfound tool belt for weathering the complexities of life with grace and joy. As a professional in the coaching / transformation field, I have pretty high standards (lol). I was honored to have been facilitated in such deep healing work, and new adventures abound in my life!" ~ Barb Wade, Speaker, Author, Coach
"During the intensive, my true self, the pure and innocent child, became so clearly apparent and vivid and now he is a part of my daily life - no longer neglected. This experience has truly changed my being and life." ~Mike Devine, Farmer
Who Should Attend:
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Individuals and couples wanting to learn Inner Bonding and experience a deep level of healing.
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Individuals and couples wanting to heal relationship dysfunction, learn to resolve conflict, and create a deeper level of closeness, safety and connection with a partner, friends, parents and children.
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Therapists and professionals who have been working with Inner Bonding.
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People familiar with the Inner Bonding process who want to deepen their experience.
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Professionals who want to start the Inner Bonding Certification Program.
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Individuals and couples who have already taken an Inner Bonding workshop or intensive and want a deeper experience.
- Individuals and couples experiencing sexual difficulties who want to resolve these difficulties.
The investment for Dr. Margaret's virtual Intensives is $2,195.00.
A $650 non-refundable deposit secures your space. Full payment is required before the intensive, unless other arrangements have been made with our office.
For more Intensive testimonials, click here.
| Date | Event | Location | Hosted By |
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| 10/14/2026 08:00 AM | 5-Day Virtual Intensive | Dr. Margaret Paul | |
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Daily Inspiration
Relationships bring up every unhealed issue we have. Just because you may be having a hard time in your relationship does not mean it is time to leave it. You take your learned dysfunctional behaviors with you wherever you go. The important thing is - are you open to learning about and healing your protective, controlling learned behaviors?
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"This was 20 years of therapy in 5 days! This is a life changing experience." February 2002 - Lucerne Valley, CA
Cynthia Collins
'It was an incredible experience of growth, learning and healing. It was so important for me in terms of breaking through my denial, and to be able to make that commitment to myself to being loving. What I liked most about the Intensive is that it is life-changing when I apply all the tools that I've learned. The intensity of the personal experience in addition to learning from others' experiences allows for deep healing and transformation. Some benefits of the Intensive are seeing tremendous role modeling of being a Loving Adult. It is a safe, loving community that is formed. You are able to create life-long connections and relationships with like-minded individuals. I feel such gratitude for Margaret and this experience - what an incredible gift!' Santa Barbara Intensive, 2.2011
Lauren Cammack
'All my life I always felt something was wrong with me and I felt very alone. I tried all kinds of therapies throughout my life (I'm 58 now), everything from encounter groups, primal screaming to Hakomi, A&D Treatment center, Terri Kellogg, Intensive ACOA treatment, Hoffman Quadrinity Process to Avatar to private therapists and counsellors, to 12 Step groups to religions, and A Course in Miracles. Although I felt relief from all of them and it kept me going, I was always left with me, the woman who never feels good enough, feels alone and lonely, very knowledgeable and educated but still unworthy and did I say alone and lonely? Yeah, that continued. I didn't know how to end this torture of being me. I blamed it on my abusive childhood and most of all on me for being a loser and screw up. Inner Bonding is the 1st therapeutic intervention that has taught me how to love myself. It is a 'simple process', but not easy. But now I know I have a model of recovery of self love that does work and will work if I work it.' Colorado Intensive, 10.11
Barbara Green
"Inner Bonding is an empowering process that allowed me to journey into my emotional underground in a very safe and supporting way. It provided me with the motivation and necessary insight for positive change and growth. It has strengthened my sense of self and will undoubtedly benefit me for the rest of my life. It is certainly recommended to anyone who has the willingness and desire to want to improve in every area of their life. Inner Bonding has been the missing piece that has now given me an effective way to resolve problems quickly with confidence, clarity and conviction. I am grateful for this new resource of self care and awareness." Santa Barbara Intensive, 2/08
Marcia Derwin
"The Inner Bonding Intensive experience is like a rebirth. It has allowed me to explore myself, find a connection to God, and see the endless
possibilities of my life." Santa Fe, NM, 4/05
Kevin Gunderson
"I traveled from Belgium to California to attend the Intensive, and am very happy I did. I was looking for a more open and trusting relationship with myself and others. The Inner Bonding process has helped me tremendously to resolve inner and outer conflict in a nurturing way. I found it also very empowering as a practice I can carry on myself after the Intensive. And most of all, it has also opened for me a clear path to an even more joyful life. I am very excited at this new energy I'll be bringing home."
Lucerne Valley Intensive, 11/06
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